What Do You Want Out of Life?
What do you want out of life? (besides more money)
This week I am going to get off topic a little because sometimes you just need to stop and take a look around.
Add to that daily marketing tasks for clients and myself (yep, I still run my window cleaning company). So I need to market Onslaught and window cleaning, help people with projects, read and keep up to date, research… that was just today!
Then there is this blog and forums I participate on…. where is me time? Where is family time?
Why do you want to make more money? These days it’s to pay bills, what a passion killer. What are your personal goals right now? Name 3 out load. How did you feel calling out your goals? Did it get the fire burning or was it like calling for the cat?
So many of us drown in the daily minutia. Hopes and dreams become "not another Monday". The smiles fall from our face, but most importantly the flame inside is dim.
I sit and think about results all day- Mailing results, flier results, website results. What about Paul results? How is Paul right now? I’ll tell you how I feel, I feel like I live in a vacuum. I feel every time something gets me stoked, something else sucks it right out of me.
So when I sat here working on my vast array of projects, I had a revelation. I am going to focus on the people I work with as well as help them grow their business. I will not only focus on excellent marketing tactics and strategies, I will focus on people and their personal goals.
Sometimes our business needs to take the back seat so we can see where we are heading. I am tired of working for empty promises and flat-lined dreams.
So as I see this mountain of work all around me. As the phone never stops ringing. As the emails keep coming, for once in a long time I feel excitement. Like being 12 years old and going to Disney Land. When is the last time you felt that type of excitement, pure and clean.
Be sure to write a down list of your personal goals, in fact take time to do it right now. If you do not mind I would like to share some of mine.
- Take my family to Rome for a week
- Build a complex on my land for homeless/mistreated pets and find them homes
- Buy a Mercedes sports car (I am still debating which one
- Get to my final rank in my mixed martial arts school (about 3 years of hard work)
- A cruise for me and my wife (that is what I call "go get some")
- Get buff ( I want muscles!.. my wife does too lol)
- Participate in a marketing seminar, live and onstage
These are not just passing thoughts anymore because I wrote them down, and I told you. These are goals that I will be working hard for. So when I am burning the midnight oil and I am fried, I will look at my list and know that because of what I am doing now, Rome is just around the corner
My focus now is finding ways to create more "me time". I will cut down on all this stuff I do because it is literally never ending. Everything I am involved in is a living changing thing. Everything is hands on and needs to be handled daily… that is coming to an end soon.
My real business goal is to create enough income to outsource as much as possible. Put others in charge of tasks. I am 40 now and I will wake up and be 60 soon. I don’t think I will be satisfied looking back at a million hours behind a keyboard. All the while trying to figure out where 20 years went.
If you really want to step up, leave a comment with your personal goals for us to see. Start empowering yourself right now.
Have a great week
Go get some
Paul
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Personal goals? Ha. Reasons to why I work from home? It’s DEFINITELY not to just pay the bills. I was when I was 17. I’m 26 now. I work from home on my OWN businesses because I want a lifestyle much different than others.
I’ve taken my business from ZERO to $20k/month in just 6 months. And I’m easily going to see $30k before the end of this year! That’s ongoing, baby, and I’m not even done yet. I want to see $50k/month by Summer. At that point, $100k/month isn’t too hard so I know I can get there by this time next year.
Why I do it?
Let me list the things:
1) Take care of my family and give them anything and EVERYTHING they want
2) Have jobs for my friends and family so they can have a better life working less and getting paid more
3) I want the rest of my financial life to be taken care of so I can dedicate 10-15 years to school and research. I’m no genius (just a few points below one according to an a free IQ test, lol), but I have a passion for the science… mainly physics and most engineering platforms like electrical, automotive, aerospace and mechanical.
4) I want to have a non-profit organization to help the homeless here in the U.S. I want to have an institution where people can go not only to have a home to stay, but a place to learn and improve themselves and help society again.
5) I want to go back to my home land and build apartment-like structures so that family who currently live in a 5×5 wooden house near the river banks can have a safe refuge. I want to generate jobs and help improve their economy and their lives.
6) With my 10-15 years of study and research, I’ll dedicate the rest of my life to inventing things I know will help mankind in the future. Even if my research is not complete, I know that I will have made a significant contribution to the community and someone will someday continue it to discover a breakthrough to save this world.
There’s a lot of my plate, but I’m running with it. It doesn’t mean I don’t find time to LIVE my life. There must be time for that or I’ll forget why I even work so hard.
But yeah, I couldn’t have accomplished what I have without having a system and program in place. If you do ANYTHING with your business, you must have a set strategy and a system that you can follow and stay organized with. Without that flow, you will be all over the place and not know what to do. There will be constant changes and you won’t know how to cope with it.
There was a client I had 6 months ago (before I even opened the doors to my new business) that I did some work for. Now that she sees me again, she’s shocked that I’m making more than twice she is although she had a head start, lol. Now I have companies trying to copy me and trying to get attention.
I’m also getting IM gurus knocking at my door wanting to talk. So much going on in life… it’s not all coincidence or by accident. We all have to take action to make it happen.
Best of luck to everyone and take care, Paul. I’ll see you around.
Sincerely,
Kevin Lam